Yours is the precious responsibility of inspiring these hopefuls to push towards their goal and deny themselves their comforts and unhealthy habits. As a morbidly obese person, i have a good idea what this physically and emotionally entails. These admirable individuals have created their coping device - friendship - to alleviate the suffering they undergo. Imagine their anguish when they have to choose whom to let go - anyone of them is a part of each other's lives. They do not deserve more emotional suffering from you. Hindi madaling tumalun talon, tumakbo, magbuhat, lumihis sa kinasanayang pagkain. Dagdagan pa ba ng galit ninyo na walang ibang gagawin kundi pasamain ang loob nila? Ikakabuti ba ng kalusugan nila ang mga sinabi mo ginoong saret? Oo at kailangan silang itulak at pagalitan paminsan, pero this was not one of those cases sir.
You are entitled to your own feelings and thoughts, but as someone who the bigating pinoys look up to, your speech on what you suggest as a bad choice on eliminating joy over winwin was uncalled for.
Una na nga sa lahat, hindi mo na lugar para magbigay ng vocal na opinyon tungkol dito dahil hindi ikaw ang inatasang magdesisyon sa eliminations. Pangalawa, sa tingin ko'y hindi mali ang kanilang naging desisyon (and i'm not partial to either joy or winwin). Pangatlo at higit sa lahat, you have put winwin in an awkward, sensitive, hurtful position. There's a reason why the contestants themselves choose whom to eliminate, and you should not involve yourself in this. You should not show a tinge of partiality, no matter how valid your opinion of things are.
Please remember what you're there for. Alalahanin din po sana ninyo na hindi po tungkol sa inyo ang BLPE - hence, your opinions on how things should be are not necessarily norm. You are a conduit towards their goals, not a teacher with a whip na namamalo ng mga estudyanteng hindi sumang-ayon sa nasa isip mong dapat.
Pakiusap lang po, please mentor the bigatins in terms of weight loss and a healthier lifestyle. Please remember also that a healthier lifestyle does not only involve what they put in their mouths, but what they receive into their hearts and minds, and in this case, what they pick up from their mentors while in camp.
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